How did I end up here in this suffocating mass of people? A salad in front of me and noise all around. My emotions rising high in my throat and threatening to burst forth in a cascade of tears. I bite them back in embarrassment. We had gone around the circle in my group this week and made goals that we were all going to hold each other accountable to. Mine was to go out and have a “real meal” at a restaurant.
So here I was, with the waitress worriedly asking if my meal was ok, a barely touched salad in front of me. I focused my eyes on the ball game on the TV and didn’t realize until my boyfriend took my hand worriedly into his that i had been playing my thumb against the steak knife, allowing it to shear against my skin, the pain somehow making it easier to maintain control in such a public and exposed space.
The guilt and shame of my stupidity overwhelmed me and I dug deep into my salad, forcing the bites down my tight throat until I thought I might choke.
“You…you don’t have to eat it all…that’s a lot of food…” the words and hand on my arm snapped me from my resolved inhalation of the meal in front of me. I felt suddenly embarrassed and unsure about the size of the meal.
“Do you think its too much?”
“.. That’s not what I said. Eat if you’re hungry. Are you hungry?”
“I…I don’t know…do you think its too much?” My hands scrambled for my phone so I could look up the calories. He snatched it away.
“You don’t need that. Its ok. Eat if you want to, but don’t feel like you have to eat the whole thing. It was a big salad.”
I was unsure of what to do. Anxiety welling up into my eyes. I took a deep breath. My hand played at the knife again. It felt as though all eyes were locked on me. “Do you need a box hon?” the waitress popped up out of nowhere. Panic and no words. The dissolved from my tongue as I scrambled for the “right answer”. The right thing to say to appear the most “normal”. Would someone bag up a few leaves of salad and chicken and take them home?
She knows. Everyone knows. He hates you. He just wants a girlfriend who isn’t a fuck-tard. You’re such a burden when you get like this. You’ve been such a shit for weeks and hes going to leave you. Oh shes looking at you funny. Quit acting weird! SAY SOMETHING!
“Ummmm thanks…no, ummmm, I’m ok. Its fine. The meal was very good.”
Concerned eyes all around. He took my hand and I squeezed his tight, grateful for the anchor as he walked out. A joke jumped from my lips followed by a smile, desperate to break the haze. The outside was so hot, so humid. It was a blanket suffocating me.
Another joke and smile and laugh. Chattering on about something inconsequential that I cant even remember.
But if I just let the drugs talk,
They have a different story to tell.
Because somehow I manage to
Make my life a living hell.
I get tired of this life I’m in,
And sometimes I don’t want to stay.
And then I need to sit right down
An just cry my heart away.